Monday, 31 July 2017

Daniella finally speaks from her heart

For those of us who spend a great deal of time connected to social media a hole of negativity threatens to suck us in as the day progresses.A celebrity is too much of this or too little of that and we dig.We dig by hurling insults at one another.We dig by dividing our society into 'Us' and 'Them' camps. We dig by suppressing our own pain into cycles of passive aggressive madness.We dig by silencing the voices of anyone whose experience threatens our tapered reality.We dig by trying to impose our lives or views and bodies that are not our own.by the end of the day we dig holes so deep that our self-righteousness leaves us reeling without grace tossing and turning  through the night wondering if we went deep enough to secure our redemption. I've been  through a lot in my life and I've overcome a tremendous amount  of hardship to get where I am today.I've been physically,mentally, emotionally victimized; I've been talked about; I've been homeless; I've been lied on.I could go on about the difficulties I've faced.I share these things about my life not to gain sympathy or pity from anyone because my needs are way beyond those things at this point in time .I share these things to emphasize that even with all the negativity I have experienced in my life,I have no desire to gossip,hurl insults,lose sleep over plotting revenge or get into an online dispute attacking someone who disagrees with me.If I hated everyone who resembled someone who hurt me or had views that were different from mine, there would be no left to love.Likewise if I invested all my energy into defending my belief there would be no time to practice them.What if we could sit with the feelings caused by disappointment,disagreement or discomfort and then were able to release these feelings in ways that didn't include attacking others.

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